Category archives: Marriage

The Love Affair that Changed Our Marriage

The Love Affair that Changed Our Marriage
I’ve actually never confessed this to my husband. I was so concerned that he would have an affair- that I contrived to have one myself! It all started many years ago... Several of my friends found out that their husbands were having affairs. My heart broke as I saw each family devastated. I got paranoid about my own husband. Paranoia consumed me until finall[...]

The Honeymoon Life

The Honeymoon Life
We live on a farm and have weddings in our barn, every weekend!  Marriage, love, weddings and honeymoon conversations are our life! True love  on a wedding day  is breathtaking, but what's more breathtaking-is true love after babies, sleepless nights and hard days turned into years. Many couples struggle to keep their marriage aflame. Many wives tell me they[...]

A Wrecked Marriage–Saved Over Lunch

A Wrecked Marriage--Saved Over Lunch
If you're joining me from P31 Devotions today, welcome! “I can’t STAND my husband. I’ve had enough. It’s over. I’m so finished with this marriage, Sharon. I’m DONE… DONE!” She screamed as I held the phone away from my ear. She started sobbing. I waited. I could hear her kids fighting in the background and a baby screaming. She said, “Sharon, can the[...]

Marriage is Like Farming- It Must be Cultivated

Marriage is Like Farming- It Must be Cultivated
The grain bag was almost empty, so I reached deeply into the dark bag to get a scoop for my chickens… Suddenly something scurried up my arm sleeve! You would have thought an anaconda was in my shirt the way I jumped and screamed! Within 10 seconds a mouse jumped right out of the top of my shirt! I’m surprised we didn't both roll over and die right there! People[...]

Keep it Shut

Keep it Shut
Sunday morning fights. Ugh… Kids fighting, shoes missing, and Dale and I who are usually in crazy love- nearly ready for separation before we walk inside the church on Sunday morning. Yikes! This past Sunday wasn’t a lot different. I wanted to go in late and leave early so as not to touch any of the “sick” folks carrying that horrible flu bug. Yeah it’s the [...]

Happily Ever After

Happily Ever After
The wedding was glorious!  True love took center stage in the old country church.  Their purity combined with their passion- exploded our hearts with joy and peace.  It’s a breathtaking wonder for a couple madly in love to wait for their wedding day, to partake of all the pleasures God has for them. I sat directly in front of Jennifer and Alex and wondered if a[...]

A Fairytale Love Story- Hardships

A Fairytale Love Story- Hardships
Who doesn’t love an epic love story?  In Genesis 24, Rebecca and Isaac’s story reads much like a fairy-tale.  It was a match made in heaven- literally.  It was love at first sight.  And God wanted us to know every detail about this couples love story… Rebecca was beautiful, pure, energetic and had a servants heart.  Isaac was peace loving, easy going, and quiet. Wh[...]

Is “Date Night” Mandatory for a Happy Marriage?

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If you're visiting from Proverbs 31 Encouragement for Today Devotions, welcome! When Dale and I were raising our five children, we maybe had three official "date nights," ever. I know, it’s hard to believe.  There were a lot reasons why we didn't. I don't think we ever discussed these things. It was just what we did because. . . ~ The cost ~ Where do you [...]

Susanna Wesley’s Prayer Apron- Powerful Life Story

 Susanna Wesley's Prayer Apron- Powerful Life Story
Hidden behind the door of many homes is the reality of hardship.  Secret things happen that few want the world to know.  Yet, from some people (presently and historically) we are given the inside story, whether they want it told or not. A devastated home isn’t always apparent on first impression, is it? Susanna Wesley was married to a preacher.  They had 10 chi[...]

The Depth of Intimacy– Pure and Indescribable

The Depth of Intimacy-- Pure and Indescribable
  Intimacy. Hmm… After 32 years of marriage, I still blush talking about it!  It is so private and sacred! No expression of human communion is deeper than that of a husband and wife making love. It borders on supernatural in expression.  The sensory goes beyond flesh into spiritual depths that are indescribable. It took me a while to fully underst[...]

Love Potion

Love Potion
  A lot of women who read The Good Wife Recipe assumed that marriage had always come easy for me. It hasn't always been easy. My dad left our family when I was young, so I lacked the example of a godly marriage. Being the oldest child, I was very independent. Those two factors added together equaled a negative value in my tendencies toward marriage. My [...]